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Tips for Living a Tension Free Life
Is it really possible to live a life without crushing tension orstress in modern world? It is true that stress is
a natural phenomenon given to us by the nature to deal with day today problems or emergency. Stress spurs a man to action.
Last Updated - 1st December 2005
Stress becomes dangerous when -
There is no action to defuse the stress-giving situation, Its level is high. Then it no more remainsa simple and healthy stress it becomes a disease and must be treated.Psychiatrists often prescribes valium to loosen its grip on a person. But this medicine is heavy on the heart and nervous system. Moreover a person may get addicted to it and a prolonged use certainlycauses many side-effects.
There are other simple methods to reduce tension. Fortunately thebest treatment is easy and it costs nothing. And the best of the benefitsis that you don't get any side-effects. Here are some tips:
Write the Cause of Tension- What is bothering you? What is causing tension? Write everything on a paper so that your mind gets somewhat clearer. Onlythen you will be able to write a plan to solve the problems. Writeeverything giving a serial number. Solve the Problem - Allthe problems of life can't be solved. But you can certainly solvethe problem which is giving you tension presently. Write three possiblesolutions to a problem. And adopt the solution that is easier andmore acceptable. It is necessary to solve the problems one by oneand with determination otherwise they multiply and aggravate yourtension. Take it Easy - Itis true that you can't do without work. We must work very hard toachieve. It is good for health and mind. But once a day atleast for one hour it is useful to forget work and do the thingswhich relax you. What is the Worst That CanHappen - You are unable to pay the next installment ofyour car. There is no money in your account, the cheque willbounce, the company man will knock at your door, company may dragyou to court for non-payment. You are worrying and worrying andgetting ill. What is the worse scenario: you can pay lateand with a fine. The worst is that you will have to sell thecar. That way you will pay all the remaining installments. In thiscase you can still save some money to enjoy or buy other things.When the work is better you can buy a car again. A happy and relaxedoutcome.So why the worry. Cheer up. Bubble of most of the problemsjust burst when you cheer up and try to solve a problem in an easyway. Let God Handle a Few of YourProblems - God made you so He can handle at least a fewof your tough problems. So why bother too much. Try yourbest to solve the problems you can and leave everything else toGod. Every day pray to Him to help you solve your problemsand He will definitely do it. Worry More to Worry Less- Whenever there is a problem there are two options:continue worrying or solve the problem. If your mind is not workingon solving the problem just worry more and more. In worry oranger slow boiling is always dangerous. Let it come out in someway. The tact is that you have to worry more and intentionally tillit becomes boring and ridiculous. You will suddenly feel relaxed. It is an amazing reverse method. Simplify Your Life - Aman makes his life complicated himself and gets in the grip of tensionwave. Too many expectations, too many aims, too many friends toappease, too many love affairs to handle - bothering you fromall the sides the whole day and the whole month. Simplify your life- have only one love affair or wife, have a few good friends, haveone or two aims in life. You can't handle everything efficiently.After all you are a human being. Reduce Expectations - Don'texpect too much from others especially from friends and family members. Toomany expectations cause heart-burn and headaches. Expect less andbe happier. Do More What You Fear - You talk to people and you get nervous and tensed. Talkto people more and more and the problem will disappear. Youworry the dark. Intentionally enter dark places more and moreand you will become relaxed. You fear car driving on the road. Drivemore and more and gradually as you practice more the fear will vanish. Delegate Your Work and Worries- Only two types of people are tension-free in this world:One who works so hard that there is hardly a place where any tensioncan fit. Second who delegates his work and worries to others. If you want to progress fast the second option is creative as wellas a sound business policy. Go to a Doctor and Get Tranquilizers- If you are such a big fool that you are not able tofollow the above tips then go to a doctor and get tranquilizers. Popup a pill and forget the tensions of life. The easiest and the worstsolution.
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